There are lots of ways to do the things you are asking about...and I'm certainly not the resident expert by any means....but here are some of my favorite tips and techniques.
For inking page edges you are on the right track when you talk about brushes...but MY favorite way to get that "look" quickly is to steal from Miss Tanya! :smile: She has some great inked edge overlays. There is one in her "Shabby Man" kit in the Elements gallery for free downloading and several on her "Play On Elements" CD.
I use Auto FX Photo/Graphic Edges filters to blend photos into backgrounds, but that's a fairly pricey way to go. A free alternative is to use the huge collection of masks available at this site:
http://graphicssoft.about.com/librar...ree_frames.htm There are directions for their use available at the site.
Do a search on "grunge fonts", "stamped fonts" or "distressed fonts" and you'll find loads of aged looking fonts that will work well with the look you're trying to acheive. Some of my favorites are Porcelain, Civilian, 4990810, and Antique Type....but there are tons more out there.
Hope this helps some! (And your man card is still intact...although you DID ask for directions...which does make it questionable!!!! :smile: )