Hi, I think she means to send her a private message

, just click on her name to go to her profile area. Then click "send private message".
As for learning Photoshop, wow, wish you had access to
www.lynda.com where you can get a monthly subscription ($25) to watch the best video tutorials ever! But, she also had them on DVD, too. Also,
www.photoshopcafe.com has a lot of free tutorials that teach great stuff in an easy to read and follow method. YOu might go there and print out a few of the tutorials and then follow them at home.
If you want to do something specific, let us know... maybe we can guide you through it. Send me a message anytime, I'll try my best to help.