Oh my gosh...........!!!!!!
I am going to answer my own question here.......
After an email from a friend

I realized I MUST be missing something.......I didn't have the same brush that everyone else has..........
I of course went and looked again and realized that it WAS there but I had it on the impressionist version of the brush on the top tool bar..........duhhhhh.....hadn't even noticed the difference. Actually you can right click and choose either brush tool or impressionist brust tool.
Don't you just hate it when the obvious is starring you RIGHT in the face!!! LOL
~Christina~