Gosh- been so long since my kids were this age. Would definitely see about having Aranka seated at a different table BUT would ask her her feelings on it first. If she isn't open to the move then work on getting her to see it is a competitive guy thing -boys will be boys- and the positive side is she should feel honored that they both want her friendship enough to compete/fight for it. I would still encourage the friendships outside the school- (slthough not with both boys at the same time). Some of my better friend relationships -even through highschool- were with boys but they weren't really as "boyfriends" but freinds who were boys. It really is a wonderful kind of friendship. Sure hope Aranka's tears and distress are soon eased.

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