I saw a similar thread on a photography forum. Seems like this is a big problem with little league in general. Don't have an answer for you but just wanted to let you know you're not alone. The only thing I would suggest is get in touch with the "powers that be" in the league organization and explain your situation. Possibly have the other parents contact them as well. Maybe this will encourage them to come up with a solution acceptable to all. Or at least make the rules clear and available to everyone.

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