Hello Peggy_T it appears that you have not posted on our forums in several weeks, why not take a few moments to ask a question, help provide a solution or just engage in a conversation with another member in any one of our forums? We'd love to hear from you...


Boy, what a shock to see that this morning! I understood it was meant to be encouraging, to participate more fully. But when I discovered the same message on every page I visited, even the gallery where I left several comments last night, I was more than disconcerted...I was really hurt! That message was IN MY FACE everywhere I went, making me feel sooo pressured.

I am a quiet person in real life. Any question I might have had has been answered one way or another without my posting. I choose not to share my few layouts because I do not want to compromise my family's privacy. I do make comments in the gallery. Out of 48,805 members here, why should anyone care whether I post or not!

I've been crying all day, and even now as I type. I am really hurt that someone here feels that I have to be pressured on every page with that message to be and do something other than the unique person I am. I am not only a registered member here, I am a subscriber, too. Is that not enough? And now, I am even less likely to participate in anything at all.

I am sooo disappointed and hurt at the blatent pressure. Is it not possible to be accepting of people who are quiet? I can't even begin to tell you how bad I feel.....

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